tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5681709.post459943961789792061..comments2023-04-26T07:40:58.773-07:00Comments on Mellifluence: Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5681709.post-70342024514504203482009-02-02T10:40:00.000-08:002009-02-02T10:40:00.000-08:00Nice post! You're right, most of us aren't cut out...Nice post! You're right, most of us aren't cut out to be noble loners but to exist in a community. I have been very dubious "you have to love yourself first..." concept. I mean sure it's easier to be happy and have a good relationship if a person isn't full of self-loathing. But the normal dents and hiccups of self-love most people experience don't seem to preclude loving others. Overall it seems to falsely suggest being happy with oneself is a goal you can achieve rather than an ongoing experience. <BR/><BR/>Also, maybe I'm paranoid but all this self-love, "me-time" or any of their cousins seem to be sold to us to justify being even more self-centered.larissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00868362882313598508noreply@blogger.com